Escaping a Harrowing Ordeal: Ebenezer Boadi’s Struggle as a Gay Man in Ghana
In a chilling account, Ebenezer Boadi, thought to be in his late twenties, narrowly dodged a fatal assault by an enraged mob in Krofrom, located in Ghana’s Ashanti Region. This frightening turn of events unfolded after local youths learned of Boadi’s sexual orientation, labeling him as homosexual.
Boadi’s testimony, initially shared with a counselor seeking advice, unfortunately, found its way onto social media, prompting his immediate escape for safety amid growing fears for his life.
Read full confession of Boadi here:
My journey into embracing my true identity began during my high school years. Sharing the same boarding house with a fellow student, I couldn’t help but notice his distinct mannerisms, strongly suggestive of his homosexuality. Initially harboring disdain for him and his lifestyle, a twist of fate brought us together during a mathematics class group activity.
As we collaborated on solving math problems, an unexpected camaraderie blossomed between us. It was during a casual conversation under a tree, following a spirited game of football, that he confided in me, expressing his affection and desire for us to be partners. His charisma and charm captivated me, and I couldn’t resist the prospect of being with him.
Our relationship evolved discreetly, as we navigated the complexities of being gay in a conservative society. Despite my father’s vehement opposition, fueled by his political and religious convictions, I remained steadfast in my love for my partner. However, our clandestine affair was abruptly exposed when we were caught in a compromising situation by a family member, resulting in physical violence and ostracization from my community.
The relentless persecution forced me into hiding, marked by constant threats and physical injuries, including the loss of teeth from a brutal assault by my father. Amidst the chaos, the pain of losing contact with my beloved partner weighs heavily on my heart, leaving me haunted by the possibility of his demise.
As I continue to navigate the perils of being gay in Ghana, I cling to hope for a future where acceptance and understanding triumph over fear and prejudice. For i have been beaten, and nearly imprisoned.
